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Did you ever wonder what the secret was to getting your perfect woman? How about how to keep the relationship fun and interesting? While there may be no single catch-all advice, the following are some tips that will guarantee getting on the girl’s good side.
Perhaps the most important thing is to just be yourself. While this is definitely a cliché, there is a reason people say it over and over and that’s because it’s true. You can only work with what you have. Some men think they aren’t good enough to attract a beautiful woman, so they go into great lengths in trying to pretend that they are someone better (at least in their minds). But here’s the real truth, most woman would agree a confident man is the sexiest. Just think about it, how many times have you seen an ugly guy with the prettiest woman? I’ll guarantee you that is because those guys display confidence and work with what they have.
- Never forget the little things. Whether this means you have to take her car in for an oil change or getting her a bag of her favorite flavors of Jelly Bellies, these things are what count. Men often get too caught up on the “grand gestures,” when in reality it’s the constant little things that remind her someone loves her and leads to healthy long-term relationships
- Appreciate her. This might be similar to the previous advice, but there is actually much more to that. You should note things she does for you too. If she cooks a special meal for decides to surprise you with a gift, make sure you acknowledge her and show her that you’re happy with it. If you see her dressed up, make sure to compliment her. Just overall, don’t take anything she does for granted.
- Don’t look at other women when you are with her. From a woman’s perspective, they generally think you are comparing that woman to her. They just don’t understand the term “the day I stop looking is the day I die.” There are a lot of reasons why a woman might behave this way, but in reality, none of that really matters. Nothing good can come from looking at another woman while you are with yours, so just don’t do it!
- Make her laugh. Not surprisingly, woman put this as one of their top attributes they seek when looking for a man, and men tend to overlook it. Remind you of another topic? Well, it’s true. Just think of all the good memories you’ve had while you were laughing. It doesn’t mater who, where, or what you were doing. If you were laughing, you were having a good time. So, make sure she enjoys her time with you and make her laugh.
- Find common interests. People have said opposites attract, but most women would prefer to have men who they share some common ground with. This is because if you guys enjoy the same hobbies, then you’ll spend more time together doing fun things together. Men don’t always realize women just want to spend more time together. So, put in that extra effort, and if you don’t know anything about her hobbies, be prepared to pick some of them up.
- Dress to impress. While most men understand they need to clean up their looks while going after the girl, they get lazy and stop caring once they’re in the relationship. For a woman, this is a big no-no. Girls like their guys to look good, it gives them something to be proud of and show off when they’re in public. So be sure to shave all the weekends and get in touch with the latest men fashions, or you might find yourself soon out of the relationship.
- Cater to her friends and family. While the honeymoon period of the relationship will be all about you and her, the long-term relationship will include her family and friends. She’ll expect her man to be able to fit in and get along with them, so make an effort to befriend her girlfriends and impress the parents. Women often turn to them for security and advice on their relationship, so make sure you’re on their good side!
- Be considerate. No matter what is going on, you need to consider her feelings. Women are often less stable than men (partially due to hormones), so save yourself even more grief and consider her feelings at the beginning. Watch her mood carefully and you can avoid being on her bad side. And make sure you talk to her. It’s important and it really isn’t hard to talk to women.
- Try new things. What people often don’t realize is that at the beginning of the relationship, everything is new. From your first kiss to the types of dates you arrange, she won’t be able to predict what’s coming next. However, after a while, all those things will become routine. If you find your relationship to fall into this path, shake things up and try something new. You’ll surprise her and more importantly, keep things interesting and the relationship healthy.
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